"Instead of worrying yourself being single, worry yourself because you’re unhappy being with you.
Instead of spoiling yourself in that sappy love romances you read, read about sacrifice and how to deal life
Instead of waiting if someone is ever to love you. Stop waiting, because life isn’t about waiting. It’s keep going
Instead of being a total googly-eyed about others and their stories. Make your own stories.
Instead of needing a guy or a girl just because you think it’s the key to incomparable happiness and everything. Stop that. You don’t need anyone. Be happy with yourself
Instead of crying so much about that jerk who broke your heart. You need to stop it now. You’re letting them win.
Life is hard. Life is a challenge. Life is a mystery.
This thing won’t expect any positive feedbacks.
But it’s okay to react, okay to be annoyed, to be mad and be offended. I’m just saying a thought.
For of all the “Instead’s” I say, It was just an opinion, for life and reality will teach you that not all of your fantasies will come true.
It’s not about someone or anybody. It’s about all of us.
Most of us locked ourselves inside our comfort zone. For we think it’s all we need and all we need to know.
But I’ll tell you something, people will leave, and just like John Green said, It’s the scars they often leave.
So be clever, and don’t let yourself lose.
Make yourself a warrior not a prisoner. Be a knight but be a royal, Be a peasant but with power, and be a wizard with that pulchritudinous beauty of illusions.
It is what you need to battle life."
(— That’s just a tint of what you need (A.M.L.G))
"As we parted, I will always hold a part of you that no matter how long it takes I will never let go. I will take them wherever I go. I will always treasure them. It will always remind me of how we used to be so happy back then. You may forget me but I wont because our memories are already imprinted in me. And as time passes by, somewhere along the line I will always look forward to the day of meeting you again and by that time I will look right into your eyes and I will remind you of how great you are as my partner. Our relationship didn’t work but within those numbered of days with you, I had been satisfied and I would be lying if I told you that you didn’t make me happy. I had loved you and I know at some point you did loved me too. I’m grateful for that. You did gave me forever within a numbered of days."
(— The Way I Remember You.
Hindi lahat ng effort nasusuklian.
Kaya yung iba puro reklamo nalang. Sila nalang daw laging nag eeffort. Parang big deal sa kanila kung walang ginagawa ang partner nila pabalik. Pero ako, wala akong pakialam diyan, kahit na walang matatanggap na kahit ano pabalik, atleast napasaya ko ang taong mahal ko. Yan naman talaga dapat, minahal ko siya para pasayahin siya, ibibigay ko lahat sa kanya. Hindi ako mag rereklamo, hindi ako magsusungit. Alam ko naman sa puso ko na ginawa ko kung anong tama, at hindi ako nagkulang.
Thank you for holding my hand even though I thought of letting go. Thank you for holding on tightly to me so that I won’t fall. For always helping me be a strong person and making me feel loved and secured. Thank you for holding my hand, sharing your warmth, holding me when I’m sad, when I’m depressed and holding me in the happiest days of my life. Thank you for holding on to me and never giving up on me because without your grip, I wouldn’t be this person I am now.
- Q: I really like this guy very much. But of all my suitors, he's the only one who doesn't fetch me at home. We always meet halfway every time we go out to have dinner or something. But I do like him. What should I do? Is he worth it?
- A: You ask yourself. Are you willing to meet him halfway for the rest of your life? If a guy can't give you all of himself, if he's only willing to extend a part of his arm and not his whole body,ask yourself if you are willing to deal with permanently. Before you submit yourself to a guy, ascertain that he is worth it. How to know if he is worth it? It's when he takes responsibility to lead the relationship and own it as his. Because what a man considers his own, he really takes good care of.
Pag mahal mo ang isang tao, matatanggap mo siya.
Minsan kasi sa isang relasyon, mabuti pa sa umpisa. Pero kapag natagalan, lalabas na lahat ng mga bagay na itinatago. Minsan rin may malalaman nalang ang isa tungkol sa minamahal niya, na hindi nila lubos matanggap. Kadalasan, nahahantong sa hiwalayan dahilan sa pagkabigo o tinatawag na “turn off”. Wag naman po sanang ganun, subukan mo ring tanggapin ang mga bagay-bagay. Kahit na ito’y napakasakit o napakabigat. Matuto kang lumaban at magtiwala. Kasi kung mahal mo talaga ang isang tao, tatanggapin mo kung sino o ano siya.
- Him: I will never get tired of you, I promise.
- Her: No, don't promise me that because you don't know yet what it's like to stay with me. You are not aware of my mood swings, of how often I degrade myself or blame myself for being left behind all the time. You have not been exposed to my dark side, that side of me which eats up all the happiness I am bound to feel, that side of me which leaves me empty and hollow inside every night. You don't know how depressed I am, or how often I struggle to not become a burden to the few people who managed to stay even if it hurts them, even if it's hard. I am a difficult person to deal with. I mess everything up every time. I shut people out. I push them away. So stop telling me all those promises because even I get tired of myself sometimes. What kind of assurance can you guarantee me that you won't?
When we’re inlove, we believe that forever does exist even if we know that everything would come to an end. We believe on the magic of love even if we know that trick lies behind every magic. We believe on promises even if we know that they're meant to be broken. That’s when we love and feel being loved, we believe on certain things that usually fanciful and unimaginable. That's the power of love.
Second chance love is subterfuge. It is a deception and a blindfold against the truth. There’s no such thing as love is sweeter the second time around because second chance love is more of a compensation. Compensation to the responsibilities that you had shouldered before and since he wasn’t able to move on and you are single, you would give second chance. Although, you know in your heart, it is no longer love but a responsibility.
Second chance love doesn’t automatically mean that you are destiny. It just sounded like it was destiny because in our generation, it is seldom for couples to go back to relationship they had thrown already. And due to its bizarreness it makes people think of something unremarkable as: destiny. But sometimes, it’s just about compensation, so that you won’t have any regrets because you tried.
But let me tell you this, you have to think about it first. Not because he looked serious or changed right now, means he is already deserving, because if you will let it happen it seems like you are giving someone another bullet because he missed the first one.
Think about it. You don’t have any clue about what is to happen in the future, so better program in yourself that you will not do anything stupid if things would hurt.
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