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"Hey. Let me ask you one last question: are you really sure that you want to leave? You better be because the moment you walk out that door and out of my life, I’m going to pack each memory of us and lock them inside the bottom drawer of my mind labeled "past." There would be no more second chances because once is enough. I won’t let you hurt me this way again. I am going to move on. I am going to continue living my life as if you never happened. I’ll stand firm against all the what ifs that threaten to break me down. I’ll do whatever it takes to forget you. I’ll make myself a better person so that you’ll regret doing this to me."
i planned out this day
and i always thought i could make it
just for you, i’d do anything
even though i’m not there with you
i’ll sort everything out
and leave you with the sweetest surprise
and make you make the sweetest smile
but suddenly things went awry
and i gave you the hardest goodbye"
Tol, balita ko sising-sisi ka raw sa nagawa mo? Dinig ko rin gabi gabi ka raw umiiyak? Kawawa naman pala ang mama mo sa kakalaba ng pillow case na pinangbalot sa mga unang iniyakan mo. Nakakatawa. Ikaw, ikaw ang nakakatawa. Huwag kang lumingon sa likod mo kasi ikaw ang tinutukoy ko. Nakakatawa ka, hindi dahil kalalaki mong tao ay umiiyak ka pero dahil ikaw na nga itong may kasalanan kung bakit natapon ang gatas, ikaw pa itong umiiyak. Umiyak ka man ng ilang libong drum dyan ay hindi mo na maibabalik ang kahapon. Nangyare na. Kinakatakutan mo palang mangyare ang mawala sa buhay mo ang mahal mo pero ano iyang ginawa mo? Sige sabihin na nating aksidente ang lahat pero gago, may mahal ka na, bat ka pumatol?
Kung nasa tamang katinuan ka at iniisip mo ang magiging pakiramdam ng butihin mong girlfriend, sana di ka na lang sumama. Alangan namang magpakamartyr ng todo ang mahal mo diba? Siguro nga alam niyang mahal mo siya pero tol, nagtaksil ka. Makonsensya ka naman. Hindi basta na lang magiging colorless na parang elementong hangin ang gusot na pinasukan mong yan. Alam mo namang mapanganib at traydor ang alak, minsan nagiging demonyo ka pag naging dominante na sa katawan mo ang likidong yan at tao ka lang, nasa tabi tabi lang din ang tukso pero bakit kasi sinimulan mo pa? Edi ang ending naging bata? Hindi naman pwedeng ipaglaban pa rin ng girlfriend mo ang pagmamahalan ninyong dalawa kung alam ninyong pareho na may masasagasaan nang bata.
Hindi rin pwedeng ipalaglag mo ang inosenteng fetus na yan dahil gusto mong maging kayo pa rin ng girlfriend mo. Tol, alam na naming tanga ka kaya huwag mo nang panindigan pa. Nakakaurat. Tapos ngayon paiyak iyak ka? Hindi kasalanan ng alak kung bakit mo siya ininom at nakadisgrasya ka. Minsan tayo lang din ang gumagawa ng sarili nating kalungkutan. Kasi tanga. Kasi hindi nag-iisip ng magiging kalabasan. Tol, payong kaibigan sabay tapik sa iyong balikat, tumahan ka na’t baka makaramdam pa iyang anak mong nadedevelop pa lang sa sinapupunan ng hindi mo inakalang magiging ina ng mga supling mo ang katangahan mo. Bilang magiging tatay ka na, wag mong ipasa ang tungkod ng pagiging tanga ha?
While We Have The Time - Patrick Leong, Juwita Suwito, Rydee Anna, Debra Robert, Jaclyn Victor & Tommy Thai (Tribute to MH370 and MH17)
It doesn’t matter what you’re worth rich or just as poor It doesn’t matter who you are famous or unknown Its not about the colour or faith in which thereof We are as we are
Different or the same we’re subjected to the pain In trials or in shame our tears are all the same But a common understanding made know to everyone There is GOD, there is GOD
Have you made it right with Him before your time is up Have you made it right with others before they leave this earth If you haven’t loved your neighbour as you love yourself Its time to make it right while we have the time (Its time to get it right)
Life is not a political game of pow’r and fame Life is not about our ways, of selfie’s or my name But life’s about the blessing of being alive each day So thank God, thank God
July 24, 2014. I think everyday is too short, I mean… to short to think about all the thoughts piled up in my head, to listen to all the music I want to listen, to read all the books on my book-list and to be with the people I want to be with. Am I the only one who find every day short? I noted; so many things to do, but so little time.
Hindi ko alam kung bakit kailangan may mga tao pang nanloloko, hindi ko maintindihan kung bakit hindi na lang makontento sa isa. Kung ayaw mong matali, wag kang mag patali. Pwede mo naman Enjoyin yun buhay mo, basta siguraduhin mong wala kang nasasaktan tao.
i. You keep yourself busy. You distract yourself from things that will constantly remind you of him. There is no need for you to put him inside a cage. If he wants his freedom, he will always find a way to escape the walls you built.
ii. Do not torture yourself. Stop listening to sad music. Stop reading his messages. Yes, he used to tell you how much he loves you and that you are his world, but everything has changed now, darling. He is not the same person you fell in love with. He changed. Maybe you changed, too. That’s why he is not feeling the same way. But regardless of who became another person, just accept the fact that the old him, was dead and gone. He will no longer tell you the messages you love to read every morning. He will no longer send you messages to comfort you.
iii. Of course, it hurts. It was real. But his chapter in your life is already done. Cry as much as you want. Cry to ease your heavy heart. Cry and let it all out. One day, you’ll look back, and you’ll just smile at these memories.
iv. Enjoy every second. Do not wish for time to fast forward. Every pain you’re feeling, every ache you’re enduring, these are all part of being human. You have to feel it. But you take the pain positively. You use it as a lesson. Do not waste your time trying to get over him. Your heart will get over him as soon as it’s ready. Do not rush into things. One day, you’ll wake up and there will be no pain left in your heart. One day, you’ll see him, but you won’t feel a single thing. Yes, that time would come. But not now.
v. If it’s meant to be, it will be.
—Because fixing a broken heart is not done in just one day /EJC
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