What if kung maniwala ka?
Na Experience mo na ba yung may gusto sayo yung isang tao, tapos wala ka naman gusto, pwede rin namang, ok naman siya pero hindi mo parin siya gusto, or pwede rin hindi rin siya yung type mo, meron naman kaibigan lang talaga.
Pero syempre vice-versa yan eh, nung nagkagusto ko ka sa taong yon, hindi ka rin niya gusto, so it means quits lang kayo ano po.
What if pinatuloy mo sa buhay mo yung mga taong yon, ano kayang mangyayari? Will they stay their all of their lives to you, or baka pwede rin sila nalang rin yung sumuko. What if matutunan mo rin siyang mahalin, what if naging ok rin kayo, but we always chase wrong people na hindi nanatin sila nakikita na hey, they also really exist.
What if sila rin yung mga tao na kinakailangan natin at sila rin pala yung mga tao na sagot sa lahat ng problema natin.
Pero iba parin kasi kapag hinahabol mo yung pangarap mo, and you are living in your own standards, hindi kasi tayo yung tipo ng tao na taken for granted, we also have feelings and decision, siguro sorry to say na narereject rin tayo paminsan minsan pero iba parin kasi kapag ikaw mismo yung humahabol sa pangarap mo di ba.
Pero hindi naman natin sinabi na masama silang tao, pero hindi rin kasi natin controlado yung mga gusto nilang sabihin at gusto nilang gawin sa atin.
I think this is respect. Respeto ng life, respeto ng decision, kasi totoo tayo sa mga sarili natin, pero dapat wag tayong manakit at manggamit ng tao kapag may crush sila sa atin, kasi tao rin sila nasasaktan.
Siguro sa ngayon, hindi talaga tayo yung tao para sa kanila, pero alam ko naman na meron talagang nakalaan na tao para sa atin, kailangan mo talagang hanapin yon. Ikaw mismo yung maghahanap, hindi kasi dadating yung mga opportunity na yon kung hindi ka rin kikilos at hindi gagawa ng effort.
"If I said those three words before, maybe we ended up together."
Isa sa mga pinakamahirap na parte ng pag-amin ng nararamdaman mo ay ang pagtanggap ng magiging resulta nito. Dahil heto na yung puntong haharapin mo na ang realidad at babasagin ang mga ekspektasyon na iniisip mo. Dahil walang kasiguraduhan ang maaring mangyari, hindi tiyak kung mamahalin ka rin niya o hindi, hindi ka sigurado kung pagkatapos mo bang aminin ang lahat sa kanya ay mananatili parin siya sa tabi mo o tuluyan siyang lalayo. Mahirap, lalo na kung pagkatapos mong umamin ay hindi yung mga gusto mong marinig ang sinagot niya. Kung hindi ay kabaliktaran ng gusto mong mangyari. Mahirap, kasi kailangan mong isugal ang pagkakaibigan niyo para sa nararamdaman mo at kahit na anong oras ay maari kang matalo. Mahirap, lalo na kung dumating sa puntong "sana hindi ko nalang pala sinabi sayo, edi sana nandito ka pa sa tabi ko at hindi ka tuluyang lumayo. edi.. sana magkaibigan parin tayo. Nagsisisi ako."
'Yung feeling na “buti pa sila…”
And there’s the darker side of love.
That feeling that you love someone so much but he can never love you as much as you do. People call love as a miracle, a magic, a dream come true but love isn’t always what love is supposed to be. Its more than those wishful thinking or day dreams. The darker side. The one sided, the endlessly, revolving pain. That fire the someone set inside you and that can never be extinguished. When people say love makes all things beautiful, think again. Not everyone can learn to love, no heart can be dictated no matter how hard you try to make yourself deserving for him. Sometimes, even giving your heart out isn’t enough. It is never enough. Love isn’t always beautiful, most of the time yes but look at the other side. Its devastating, its cruel, its dark, its painful.
Sabihin mo naman sakin kung nag gaguhan lang tayo, papayag naman ako e, kaso sana ipaalam mo para alam ko kung saan ako lulugar. Para mapag handaan ko yung sakit. Mahal na mahal kasi kita e. Kahit ang sakit sakit na.
"In the end, it’s either we will regret the chances that we didn’t take or regret on the decisions that we’ve made."
I have said “i love you” more than a million times. I have loved you more than anything else in this world. I have promised to stay with you forever. But you ignored all my efforts. Despite of everything I’ve done for you, you still had and have the guts to leave me, to hurt me and to break my heart.
The moment I started loving you is also the moment I began to disregard my love for myself. I have truly been fooled by love, no, scratch that, I have been truly fooled by you. By just someone like you. Thank you for breaking my heart. Thank you for making me afraid of falling in love again. Thank you for all the motherfucking pain you gave me. Now I’m not myself anymore. I will never be the one who’d say “i love you”. I will never love anyone else aside from myself. I will never stay in one’s life forever. Thank you for making me feel like I’m a little piece of shit.
"LOVE . . ."
Perhaps, the most common false assumption about love is that we will not be challenged or changed … think again. You see, between lovers; things aren't always black and white … sometimes you’ve got to compromise if your relationship means something.
The thing is, in a relationship, no one knows what lies ahead and what to expect; you will be challenged, disturbed, frightened and at times even heartbroken. Nevertheless, be bold and steadfast, accept the challenges readily and willingly, make your choices wisely, pursue your dreams and endeavor to work it through, and hope for the best for both of you.
And when you love, love till it hurts. My point being is that never do anything halfway, unless you’re willing to be half-happy.
Anyways, let me share you some facts that I’ve experienced while in a relationship. It’s not necessarily in this order:
* Don’t attempt to love if you don’t know how to trust. Love and trust are inseparable, neither can survive without the other. As such, “jealousy” has no place in a relationship.
* If you really want to be a part of someone’s life, make an effort to be in it. After all, commitment is the language of relationship.
* Love has no bounds neither a beginning nor an end … when it happens it just happens.
* Relationship is based on two hearts not more … don't let anyone get in between.
* A relationship is a two-way lane. You must be willing to give as well as to receive.
* Relationship is like building a brick wall together with your partner: you build it brick by brick, moment by moment, experience by experience. Each brick, moment and experience rests on the foundation – trust and love – both of you have already laid.
* For a rewarding and successful relationship, you must offer your HEART [Honesty Empathy Affection Respect Trust] unconditionally. Profoundly and patiently wrapped in Commitment, Responsibility, Fidelity, Integrity & Compassion.
On the other hand;
* There’s no need to hate the person you once loved, but you may treasure the memories and move on. Besides, memories don’t just fade away … they tend to flashback and haunt you, one-way or the other! So either dwell on it, or use it to better yourself. Forget the past; it’s dead and gone. Live for the future; it’s alive and full of potential.
Finally, don’t ask for an explanation if you don’t want to believe.
"Hinding hindi kita bibitawan kahit ano mangyari. sana lang in return kumapit ka lang din sakin ng mabuti. wag mo hayaang bumitaw kahit ung isa mong kamay, kasi pag nangyari un madali na para dun sa natira mong kamay ang mapagod at tuluyang bumitaw sakin."
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